Min, 21 Jun
|Margin Library & Third Space
Eldest Daughter Off Duty Klub
An afternoon for the high-functioning, internally imploding life CEOs to finally clock out. A no-filter curhat session, and your pick of journaling, collaging, or sticker puzzles. No fixing, no performing, no being the strong one. Just permission to be off-duty for once.
Time & Location
21 Jun 2026, 10.30 – 13.00
Margin Library & Third Space, Jl. Pejaten Barat Raya No.10, Ragunan, Ps. Minggu, Kota Jakarta Selatan, Daerah Khusus Ibukota Jakarta 12540, Indonesia
About the event
The eldest daughter doesn't get days off. You notice, you remember, you hold it together, and even at rest, half of you is still scanning for what needs handling next. Not today. Let's chat, let's wind down, heck, let's nap. No fixing. No managing. No being the strong one. Just a room full of people who get it, and permission to be a person instead of a function.
Come off-duty. Leave a little lighter.
The Curhat Sesh
We open with an unfiltered conversation about what it actually means to be the eldest daughter, the invisible job description, the resentment we don't admit, the exhaustion underneath the competence.
No toxic positivity, no neat resolutions.
Share a story, a confession, a "me too," or just listen and nod, both are allowed. This is the part where you realize you were never the only one carrying it.
No advice-giving, no fixing each other. Just witnessing.
The Off-Duty Sesh
We put the talking down and do something with our hands instead. Choose your medium and just be for a while, no standards, no output, nothing to be good at.
Journaling
Pour it onto the page, prompts provided
Collaging
Make something messy and un-curated, just for you
Sticker puzzle
The quiet, satisfying kind of nothing; let your hands work while your brain finally rests.
You don't have to share what you make.
You don't have to make it good.
You just have to let yourself off the hook for one afternoon.
(Melamun and napping is an option)
Who is this for?
The eldest daughters by birth order, or by unpaid promotion.
The responsible ones. The default fixers.
The family CEOs who never interviewed for the role and somehow still got it.
Anyone who's been the emergency contact, the group-chat secretary, and the unlicensed family therapist all at once.
You don't need to be artistic, articulate, or "in a good place", honestly, if you were in a good place, we'd be suspicious.
You just need to show up, sit down, and stop holding your breath and do something not productive and just cause it could be f*cking fun.
Tickets
Single Admission
Beverage and materials included.
Rp 199.000
+Rp 4.975 ticket service fee
Total
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